Where is the love?

Wow...I think I'm at that age. You know, the one where all of your friends are falling in love and gettin married, and some are even having kids. I could probably name at least 10 of my friends who have gotten married, engaged, or are planning engagement in the past 6 months. Looks like love is in the air, for some people. I'm not one of them. In the past, this would have irked me to no end. I would be ripped at the seems, feeling like I was alone b/c it seemed like I was the only person I know who was not in love. But not now. I've recently reached a record time of being single, and it's not a bad thing. I'm not in a hurry to "find" love. Actually, I'm not even looking for it. That is the mistake I made in the past...I was looking for it. Now it's time to enjoy life, enjoy friends. The serious stuff can happen later. For now, I'm not "looking for love in all the wrong places." I'm not looking at all. A friend tried to explain this too me at one time, I didn't really get it then. I guess sometimes it takes a little bit of self realization to "get" something. So, now that I've learned that lesson, I'm going to enjoy the blessings that God has blessed me with now and be patiently waiting for the Mr. Blessing God has in store for me one day. On that note, I'm out like a sumo wrestler in a leotard!